Don’t text about your work drama, text about going wine tasting or going to see the new movie you’re dying to see.
There is no need to worry about contacting him “too” soon.
There is no shame in letting someone know that you aren’t interested in furthering the relationship.
You would rather be honest and upfront with the guy than play games and break his heart.
This can be as simple as texting him the night after or the morning after thanking him and telling you hi that you enjoyed yourself and would love to do it again.
It doesn’t have to be lengthy or have a date and time of the next time you can see him, just a little message to express that you had fun and are interested. Small talk can get boring and it important to keep it fun and interesting especially at the beginning.
However, if we wait around for them to always do things first, we may lose out on opportunities.
Cut the men some slack and do not be afraid to initiate conversation.If you fear to initiate conversation enough to wait for a text, he may be having the same reaction and the chance is gone.You should text him after a few days without talking, he will be completely affirmed on the fact that you like him if he was having any doubt.You don’t want to waste your time on someone who doesn’t want to pursue dating further, you want to focus on a guy who wants the same thing as you.If you just like to know that this guy likes you and you don’t really want to go on with it, don’t play games with him and play with his mind. You should want to find someone you are really interested in.If he thought you were not into him, he may have been afraid to reach back out to you.